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Another had previously dated someone while at college. Only one student was able to complete the assignment.
So the next semester I said, “You cannot pass the class without completing this assignment.” The students needed more direction, and they needed a time frame.
They are trying out and testing their social powers.
And some who are looking for relationships think that hooking up is how to get started.
They want to know: “Is it OK to ask out someone I have been friends with for a long time?
” “If I ask this person out, will he know that I have never kissed anybody before?
First, we should note that the hookup culture is not necessarily about intercourse.
Some students in that culture do have sex, but the majority do not. They don’t see themselves necessarily as making sexual decisions.
Students are building their sexual skill sets or trying to find out where they belong.
Students needed direction on how to go on a Level 1 date.
It isn’t because I think that all first dates should go a certain way, but because the students were so lost. When I said, somewhat tongue-in-cheek, “These are the rules, this is what you are going to do,” they were very task-oriented.
And feeling a part of something is an incredibly important part of college life.
By and large, students are not hooking up over the long term.