Dating very slowly
That guys who want to wait to get physical aren’t always doing it to be a gentleman.
More often than not, they actually just have performance issues – like whiskey dick, but maybe without the whiskey – that they don’t want you to know about until it’s too late and you’re already semi-attached. “I’m bad at sex and she can’t know until it’s too late,” said Reddit user Real Post All True.
It’s easy to hate on guys that do this, because it seems like they think coming into contact with their dick makes you undatable.Or if he’s emotionally unavailable and was only acting like bae material to get into your pants.In fact, when people say they want to “take it slow,” it almost seems like they’re doing you a favor by being straight up, but they’re probably not.Trying to figure out what makes him tick in matters of the heart can help you relax while you wait.For many couples, being in a relationship means falling head over heels in love and doing everything together as a couple as quickly as possible.